We all have issues and problems that need to be attended to but it is wrong to put pressure on others to solve your problems or make you feel better. That is your job! Take responsibility for your feelings, for how you value yourself and for what is happening in your life. If something isn’t working, explore your options, learn and search out information that will help you change and/or reach your highest potential. Don’t let others take control over your life instead start doing the job yourself.
You can't do anything about the past but you can do something about the present and the future. You may have had an unfair past that is not the discussion, what I want to speak to you about is : " Move forward and get ready for the New Possibilities that are about to enter your life." Don't allow the past to poison your future. That is so easy for us to do.
God's ways are not our ways; His ways are better. He can see the big picture for our lives and he has the better approach, that is why we need to release control and let God show us the best for our life.
Thinking big thoughts actually opens your heart and soul to expect more in your life. Some might say: "Why should I deceive myself by expecting more from my life?" My answer is: Why would you limit yourself?
Have you ever noticed that when opportunity arises, it's never in "our time"? Rather, it comes at sometimes the most "inopportune" times - meaning that we're often not prepared to receive it and use it to our advantage.