If life throws you a curve ball, get over it! It is easy to feel sorry for yourself and play the woe is me syndrome but I encourage you not to fall into that trap.
In the film, "Field of Dreams", an Iowa farmer (played by Kevin Costner) is inspired by a "voice" (in his mind that whispers, "If you build it, they will come." What he perceived that voice to be or mean was entirely by Costner's choo
It takes self-discipline to accomplish your dreams. If you want to lose weight, you must discipline your mind and mouth. If you want to change your career or job, it takes time and effort on your part to prepare for the new possibilities to become your reality with focus and determination.
Loneliness, depression, feeling sad -these emotions can be dissolved and removed from your energy field and thinking process when you willingly seek out experiences that will bring you joy or something pleasant to fill your mind and thinking process. It is actually normal to gravitate to negativity because our Ego mind likes to keep us in a state of dependency and control.
We are all unlimited beings only limited by our own limiting thoughts, ideas, concepts and beliefs. These concepts of limitation manifest consciously through our thoughts and feelings.