Have you ever said "If Only" I had that, I could do this or "If Only" I was blessed with better looks, I could be so much better and have so much more. We seem to be people who are always wishing for something more and my message to you today is: "Be happy with who you are and where you are in your life right now" because you have been given exactly what you need for the season of the life you are in. We too often seem to need to create an excuse for our situation so we start the monologue of all the " what if's" of our lives.
I have come to the realization for my life that all of my needs are always taken care of---I may not have all my wants or desires that I seek but my needs are satisfied. That is a powerful self-realization. God [or whomever you call The Creator] is giving me exactly what I need for moment. That is a powerful statement and when you too realize and accept that statement as a truth, you will feel more relaxed and content with yourself and your situation.
When we start to seek more than what it is that we actually need, we find that we are not happy because we are always in the state of seeking. Maybe it is time to stop competing with yourself because you are setting yourself up for distrust and frustration. Your life would be better fulfilled when you know that you are not missing out on anything but rather you are in the right moment of your life. Learn to appreciate the space that you have and make the most of it.
Because we spend most of our lives and mental thoughts in the material world and the material vibration which is influenced by staying busy, we miss the blessings that are right in front of us. Don't do that to you---instead be happy and content with what you have in front of you right now. You are actually lacking nothing for the season and the energy field that you are in right now. When you need more, the Creator will make sure you get all of your needs fulfilled, that is, of course, as long as you are willing to do your work and prepare yourself for that moment in time. Accept where you are right now Believe you are capable of bringing in more as you grow spiritually and emotionally and live that way---knowing that everything is being fulfilled in perfect timing.
There are many people who cause their own misfortune because of the way they have visualized their lives. If we are not prepared and vibrating at the right level to receive, your gifts cannot be given to you. It is our duty and responsibility to do the work needed to match the vibration of Creation. Take this example - it just might help you understand exactly what I am saying. Let's say that you are seeking a job that you are not qualified for yet you are pushing to make it happen. If you are not of the right mental attitude or if you do not have the appropriate skills, you will be looked over and rejected. If you say that you need to be paid for your services $ 100,000 yet in your heart you know that you don't fit the criteria, you will not be attracting the right people into your life who are able to match your desires. You cannot magnetize that which you want if you are vibrating at a lower level right now. If you spend the time and energy needed to raise your vibration, you will be able to receive that which you are seeking in the future but today, you are not capable of attracting those into your energy field who will give you what you are craving to experience. Understand that if you don't have it all right now, it is because you actually are not prepared to receive it.