The Boom-a-Rang Theory
It is the same old story what comes around, goes around. Life can be that simple yet we too often seem to miss the target and look for solutions that are a misfit. Let me explain. I just got off the phone with a client who was having personal life issues that were causing not only her life to be unstable but that of her Mom and her Daughter. You see, we are all energy beings so if we put out energy of fear, worry and I was done wrong guess what that is exactly the type of energy that you are going to attract. When you attract that type of energy, you draw it into your life which includes your thoughts and attitude, your behavior and the way you act out. When you mix it all together with the environment in which you work-live and play and you have a life of discomfort, unhappiness and often sickness; do you understand the cycle that is being created?
Life is meant to be happy and rich but if and when we cloud it over with our emotional blocks or issues, we build a thick wall around that stream of richness and happiness and surround it with darkness. You are actually building an impenetrable fort. Light can only filter through the open doors and windows of our heart, mind and spirit. As I was speaking to this young client, I found that she was determined to continue to share her pain and sorrow with me to the point that she could not hear the solutions and tools that I was sharing with her. She told me about a person who said that he would shift the energy for her and do the work for her. Please be aware--that is false and bogus information. No one has the power to shift your energy---that power belongs to you and you alone.
I or anyone else can present tools, steps and guide you on your journey by showing you where the blocks and problems are rooted but it is your life and your journey and ���You' are the only one who has the power to clean up your circumstances, shift your beliefs and purify your energy field.
So getting back to the boom-a-rang theory---What you are throwing out will eventually return to you. If, for example, you are feeling anxious or sad or nervous, you can pretty much guarantee that your children and family will pick up on that energy and show similar signs or traits that stem from your issues. Yes we are all vessels of energy that is why I encourage you to frequently clear and clean your energy field through meditation, moments in silence and through breathing exercises that clear out toxins and open the cells to receive nourishment and healing.
Too often I have had women approach me concerning the problems that they are experiencing with their children. They seem to be acting out in negative and often disruptive ways, which of course results in havoc in the household. Please understand that even a young newborn will pick up on your fear-based energy. If you are feeling anxious, frustrated or even feelings of unworthiness, your children will sense your weaknesses and pick-up on those same feelings and become fearful and anxious too. Our children learn through our examples and their sense of intuition and awareness is very sharp. Their energy is pure and their antenna's are laser beams that are sensitive and alert.
You actually can improve your emotional state, which will at the same time improve the emotional state of those who are within your sphere of influence. I encourage you to listen carefully to my words and pay attention with an open heart and mind.
Joan Marie Ambrose