Are you living an authentic life?
Have you ever been in a situation where you were being pulled in different directions? That is what happens when you are trying to make everyone around you happy for their benefit. Essentially, true wisdom in life only comes to us when we are able to step outside of our own comfort zones. We think we have all the answers, we think we can help everyone around us, we think we are able to make other people happy. The hard truth is you cannot live an authentic life
unless you yourself are being authentic in your everyday living.
Being authentic means that you are willing to accept yourself for who you are. When you are authentic, you are also able to see all viewpoints of a situation and look at it objectively - regardless of who the situation involves, or in what regard it is related. In other words, you cannot concurrently be the judge, jury, witness and defendant. You must simply be you. To live an authentic lifestyle, you must be able to step outside of yourself and view your life for what it is. Know that no matter how you may "feel" about another individual, you must first love and honor yourself. Remember, you are as unique as each strand of hair on your head. You cannot control what others may do around you, but you must lead your own life in the best way you can. You achieve that by living authentically and not worrying about what someone thinks of you, or whether or not you need to impress anyone.
Accept who you are right this moment. Maybe you are not a rocket genius, but you might be an exceptional airline stewardess. Perhaps you are not a professor, but you may be an exquisite chef in your own home. By no means should you ever feel as if you are less than someone. In fact, you may be better at what you do in your own field than others in theirs. Living an authentic life means you are accepting of your gifts, are willing to explore new ideas, and do not care about whether or not you are "good enough" for
something. The truth is that you are as good as you believe you can be. Once you accept that reality, you can begin your journey of self realization and personal growth.
Choosing to live an authentic life means you are willing to be true to yourself. You no longer have to rely on others to make you happy. You no longer have to rely on feedback to feel good about yourself. In fact, being authentic is quite liberating. You are free to think, feel, act and speak. You do not need a personal cheering section to keep you moving. While you live an authentic life, you begin to gain the bigger picture of your place in this world; and you start to see the real you and potentiality that you have.
One of the most positive aspects of living an authentic life is that you begin to see how much more there is to learn in life. You begin to experience life through the eyes of a smaller you - the child within that is ready to experience each and every day. And when you do, you realize that no one or nothing can stop you from growing, thriving and succeeding. After all, Socrates was correct when he said true wisdom comes when we realize how little we understand about life -- but when you live an authentic life, you are on the right track to that same wisdom you can call your own.